Have you ever been aroused when the subject comes up in conversation with friends, have you ever looked up the work “spanking” in the dictionary over and over again, stared wide-eyed at a spanking scene during a movie or show or reread, almost obsessively, passages of an erotic novel where the insolent was punished in the most traditional way?
If you’re reading this it’s because in a certain way, we speak the same language.
Like when P. Desproges said we can laugh about everything, but not with everyone, it’s not easy to speak freely about “spanking” with everyone even though the art has become less taboo over the years with its introduction into “mainstream” film and literature.
And yet how hypocritical society can be. Spanking has always existed with traces of the erotic practice stemming back to ancient times.
Everyone who identifies with these words and who feels aroused by the idea of finding themselves in the position of giver or receiver will inevitably ask themselves to turn the fantasy into reality.
This realization involves going beyond guilt or repression, towards the acceptance of one’s wants and needs and finally putting them into practice, before finally being able to fulfill ones desires and fully enjoy spanking.
We think there are as many ways to appreciate spanking as there are to love.
Some of us consider it a genuine need, an all-consuming drive, a passion, an obsession; others see it as a passing, or recurring interest, a plus in the games couples play.
Others associate it with reminiscence, a catharsis, to a binding.
Some of us have always felt this need … others discovered during a naughty chat, reading a book containing no less than fifty shades, or after being initiated by a lover.
Get started? Dive in? Yes, but how and with whom? How do you find the right partner? Because whether it’s practiced in an erotic or punishment setting (more on this distinction later), spanking deals with the most intimate aspects of our personalities.
Feeling confident enough to be oneself, explain the origin of this often far away fantasy, share an understanding with your partner without fearing judgement as well as a certain appetite for the subject, are among the questions we are often asked.
Meeting people of quality, respectful of another’s privacy, lover or connoisseur of spanking, who want to partake occasionally or ?.
These are some the basic goals of our club. How do we achieve them?
The secret is to take the time to assess the suitability of each applicant and to meet as many applicants as possible, many of whom were referred by another member.
Although the practice of spanking doesn’t have to be strictly divided between categories, a dichotomy exists between punishment and erotic spanking.
“Punitive” spanking is disassociated from a sexual context. It is meant to regulate the behaviour of the person being punished, to correct, and to make them conscious of certain inappropriate behaviours and attitudes unacceptable for their age.
“Punishment” spanking can be fatherly (or motherly) tied to role playing, deliciously regressive, humiliating, in a consensual environment and accepted where the limits and desires of each person are respected.
Spanking can also be erotic, soft, sensual, pleasurable, deliciously seductive, and the first of many other equally naughty games.